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I shoulder all of the overt blame. In discussion, everything is my fault. I was a spoiled princess. I only think of myself. I dish out all of the covert blame. In my heart, he is to blame, but I will never say that to him. I take every work trip I can get. Also, video games. He intentionally sabotages anything that makes him happy.
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Actually,at the day of our wedding, people are laughing. I am having a regret now. We have a daughter. Learn and grow from the experience. People speak of saving your marriage.
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I don't want her back, but the Unhappy wife chat friend of her with my friend drives me crazy. I also want to add, I love this girl and told Unhappy wife chat friend I loved her. My wife sees wiffe as cheating, although we have never kissed or anything. My wife is using the cheating and grounds for divorce.
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I wish I did not feel this way, I feel like I am torn apart. I feel like my whole life is a mess of emotions. Hold your head up man. Just because you cheated doesn't make you a monster first of all, and you not mentioning your children doesn't seem unfair or wrong to as Camille mentioned, because without your happiness they won't be happy so sometimes you have to be selfish.
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Life has taught me this and it continues to be confirmed to friens. Self-love is the cornerstone of this article…I LOVE myself enough to remove myself from relationships with men.
I think that being successful in marriage is more important than holding onto a male friend. I strongly believe in the free will of a woman to choose to be careful of her ways. Our current society wants to believe that everyone can do everything they want to without harm. This is the heart of this blog. Male friendships once you are a married woman are not beneficial enough to continue in them.
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